Love Horoscopes – May 5, 2012
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Aries: Today’s planetary influences may make you appear more cold and distant than you actually feel. There is a certain energy in the air that tends to encourage a very dry sense of humor combined with a more detached perspective. Also, your values may be at odds with those around you at this time. You may not appreciate your surroundings, or you feel as if someone younger than you does not measure up to your beliefs and standards. Give yourself some breathing space and remember you’re the more emotionally mature person in this relationship. If you are going out on a date with someone new, they may not understand this “mood” you are in, so try your best to generate some warmth and a real smile.
Taurus: Being able to handle your emotions, or lack thereof, will be the focus of your energies today. Don’t worry if you don’t feel enthusiastic about the date you are supposed to be going out on this evening. The energy surrounding you is encouraging a more reflective mood. To be honest, this is the Universe telling you to take some time out to be alone with yourself and your thoughts. It may be better to explain you are not feeling quite social and rearrange your date for another evening. By the next time you see him or her, your spark and spirit will have returned. Knowing in your deepest self and where you are going can let you advance farther along in love and life in general, with less energy wasted.
Gemini: A good time to take care of emotional issues you may be having with someone you are involved with. The current aspect may encourage some feelings from the past to reemerge. Working through them now will allow you to move on past any barriers you’ve built because of these issues. If they seem to overwhelm you and aren’t entirely of a positive nature, then perhaps it is best to realize that your current relationship isn’t really to blame. Detach from your emotions and allow them to disperse. If you do this every time they threaten to come back – they will trouble you no more. Take some time to look ahead at the next few days to see how quickly you can follow through with any plans you are considering.
Cancer: If things are not going well in your love life, don’t take it personally. The energies flowing through the zodiac are likely to be of influence in this chaos. Your friends or love partner may behave in unexpected ways which may throw you off emotionally. It will affect you somewhat deeply as you may be feeling more distant and cold, rather than your usual warm and sensual self. It may be good to spend some time alone quietly reflecting, or doing something that brings you a great deal of enjoyment. Being flexible and open minded in your relationships is called for now. If you can bring yourself out of this sour mood, some of you may find yourselves highly attracted to someone new. You are looking forward to the possibilities and sense of adventure.
Leo: If you are going out tonight, be prepared for things to not go the way you hoped or planned. Your relationships have a very competitive, aggressive quality at this time. Some of you that are attached may be going through some power struggles so battles over dominance may erupt. As the day wears on, you may be feeling more detached from your emotions, and therefore you want to deal with no one at all. But, if you are going out on a date and can stand it, it needn’t be a total disaster. You may begin a relationship now; it just may take a while to get going. You will come on strong to this person, but he or she might just love it! You won’t compromise yourself to please anyone right now. Oddly enough, it works very well for you during this time.
Virgo: Your personal charm and attractiveness has a positive effect on others at this time. People see you as a loving and lovable person, and as someone who is aware of their needs and feelings, which can benefit you at this time. But right now you feel that you need to regain control of your emotions and their actions. If you think that you have given too much of yourself away, or told too many intimate secrets, then you may want to hang back for a bit and let those who want you bad enough, come to you. You feel as though you have made it far too easy for them, and now regret having done so. While you may feel as if you are taking back control of your feelings, understand that deep down you wanted someone else to know this side of you exists.
Libra: You may feel like you should speak to those close to you about your innermost feelings, your past, and other personal subjects, things that would normally build closeness and trust in your relationships. In all honesty, you would rather put some distance between you and loved one for a little while. It’s not that you don’t trust them, or don’t love them, but rather that you have tended to lose yourself in them lately, which has meant that your daily routine has gotten out of kilter, and you have neglected many of your own needs. Take time to enjoy your own company. Get your mind and body back on track, feel like yourself again before you start to share any pieces with those you love.
Scorpio: Sudden realizations of the overall requirements in your intimate relationship can give you a better idea on what’s really going on. Your limitations become clearer which makes any obstacles easier to work around or eliminate. Sometimes it is good to reinforce the boundaries between our loved ones and ourselves. If you forget where you stand or never clearly establish those lines, we tend to weaken the relationship. So right now it is time to fix this oversight. You need to say what you mean and mean what you say. Clear demands are more easily met and you know where you stand when the possible and impossible are sorted out. Be true to yourself and to the things that make you unique.
Sagittarius: After a period of time when you and your partner have been together, sharing every single thing, you may find yourself feeling rather flat in terms of your current relationship. Don’t let this worry you at all. You have not fallen out of love; you just both need some space. Sometimes it is refreshing to spend time alone. You can see things from a broader perspective than usual at this time if you take apart. Once you do, you will feel better about yourself as well as bring something new to your connection. It will help you two feel even closer, and you better appreciate how your personal activities, interests, and goals fit into the needs of a personal relationship. Take a few days, read book or go on a mini vacation but do it alone.
Capricorn: Wow Capricorn, aren’t we in a mood today. If you are one of the many in a slightly vengeful mood, those close to you are in for a hell of a ride. You may be tempted use your aloofness and withdrawal as powerful weapons in a relationship game that only you seem to be playing. Needless to say, this is not the best way to go about things. It would be better if you could openly admit that you are hurt. Rather than close up and stop communicating, come right out and say that whether their actions were unintentional or not, you are hurt by this person close to you and want some sort of restitution. In all honesty this should be easy and you do in part deserve it. Besides it would save you some time planning their demise.
Aquarius: You are in a terrible mood today. But this may not be such a bad thing as far as your current relationship is concerned. Sometimes those closest to us tend to overstep the mark because they think we will turn a blind eye. But it would better if you were honest and said so, if something displeases you. Thankfully, you will have the opportunity to do just that and clear up the matters at hand. Right now you would rather be surrounded by comfort and ease. You have luxurious tastes that need to be indulged at this time. Quality is especially important to you and you want to share this good fortune with warm company and happy fellowship. It’s a good time for a party, not to deal with bullshit. Handle your business so you can have some fun.
Pisces: Your charm knows no bounds today as an atmosphere of love and desire forms around you. There is this internal debate you have been having about whether or not you should keep your feelings held back for someone you greatly admire. You have this fear that they will see how much you care about them. Under normal circumstances you would not mind, but in this instance it could be extremely embarrassing. Do what you think is best but you are in a cycle that can provide the foundations of lots more like it to come, if you go for it now. New adventures begun during this time can be the start of great friendships or even love relationships that bring both wealth and love. So if you don’t do it today, think about doing it soon, very soon.