by Sarah Bartlet

This week’s planetary line-up gives us all a radical, but liberating view of romance, so be prepared for a different perspective on your love life.

People who once seemed unattractive suddenly seem desirable; those who we adored, can seem dull and tarnished. But behind the apparent puzzle that love is, Venus also bring us a realization that however much we think we may have to adapt to changing circumstances, love itself never dies.
ARIES

We are all capable of projecting strength, sensitivity or competitive qualities on to the ‘other’ who we fall for. Just like sprinkling a cake with icing sugar, we drizzle and dust our lovers with the very qualities we think are lacking in ourselves.  Then we desperately want to import these qualities into our lives. But we end up finding our partner’s not so easy to live with after all. “They’re too power-driven, they’re so selfish!”  The poetic type gets a harder time: “what a wimp, they’re useless with a screwdriver!”  This week, there may be huffs and puffs of green smoke, and sulks and tantrums, but the air is gradually clearing. Thanks to the changing energy, you reclaim your projections with respect not only for your other half, but for yourself too.

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TAURUS

You miss your partner when they’re not there. When they are there, you wish they’d stay at work later and give you time to yourself. It’s natural. We all do it. And if single, you’ll understand that sentiment too. You go on a date, it feels great to have someone adore you, but it’s also great to have the bathroom to yourself, and organise the kitchen in the way you want. Inevitably, we get swallowed up in guilt about being self-centred if attached, or panic about being alone and old, if single.  And you’ve probably feel this dichotomy within you more than usual.  But this week, suddenly you are aware of what you want and who you love. This week you can lift your face to the summery sky and sing that old Beatles song, ‘tomorrow may rain, so I’ll follow the sun.”  And that’s the sun of your own heart.

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GEMINI

I know the more involved you get, the more you fear rejection. This week, you’ll probably be torn between what your head and heart tell you and how much you still yearn for personal freedom. But you have a right to that as much as anyone else.  Shakespeare wrote, ‘love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs.’ Yes, indeed there is much about love which is painful, unrequited, but equally much which is warm, compassionate, tender. So don’t fear the good, nor the bad. Let love be what it is for you personally, and take pleasure in that being. It’s a time to make it clear that you need your freedom, but you can love better from that place of liberation too.

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CANCER

One of the difficulties of being a water sign ( every element has it’s downside) is that if your partner isn’t giving you complete and utter attention you often feel jealous, resentful and well, that you’re just not good enough for them.  It’s a kind of cop out clause, because it means you don’t have to make any effort either. You don’t have to feel responsible for the relationship. And its safer to think, “well, I’m invisible so I might as well stay that way.” But this week, you start to fee engaged in a love relationship, rather than feeling exiled from it. You don’t have to compensate by agreeing to everything they say, and you can make a choice and not feel guilty because they don’t necessarily have the same opinion.  Yes, you are deeply insecure and find it difficult to maintain your boundaries, but you do have inner strength and an extraordinary love to give out. Time to show it.

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LEO

First step this week, is a commitment to you. Second step, is to give as much love and attention to your partner as you can.  Sometimes they feel a little left out in the cold because you withdraw your love as readily as give it. Sometimes they feel that maybe you’re only interested in competing against them rather than loving them. Yet you know, right now, that you do have a vulnerable side, and when you feel someone gets too close to it you turn cold, defrost the fridge, or work late. So yes, go with the flow of your own moods and feelings. It may be hard to see a way through the jungle of emotions, it may be hard to honour your own values, but you are gradually finding a deeper connection with someone who counts for more than anyone else in the world. And that’s yourself.

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VIRGO

Poseidon (Neptune’s Greek name) stirred the sea into whirlpools of foam to capsize vessels and destroy islands. He could equally calm the sea with a single glance. Poseidon was never truly satisfied with his watery kingdom.  Sexually rampant, he fell for nymphs, mermaids and mortals. But he finally settled down and married the grand-daughter of the god of the Ocean, who seemed to calm him down. Now the planet Neptune has a similar effect in our chart. It stirs us into whirlpools of illusion. It dissolves that which we thought was real or reliable.  We may have to sacrifice, give up or just let go of thoughts, feelings, people and ideas. Neptune’s been banging on about self-delusion and how there are bits of love that you can’t control. So, this week ask yourself,  can you take a relationship onto a different level of love and free yourself from your illusions?

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LIBRA

The good news is, that if you use Saturn’s hard-nosed influence to make it clear what you want, this week could actually be one where you start to rule the roost rather than run around like a headless chicken. I mean, isn’t it nice to feel that you have a renewed sense of passion for your partner, if attached? Or if single, that you don’t have this fear of being left all alone because you know you only belong to yourself? You’re beginning to have inner authenticity and outer self-confidence. And as I’m always rubbing it in,  what we have is what we attract.  If you sit around saying’ poor little me’, or  ‘no-one is ever going to love me, I told you so,’ then they won’t, because the universe usually obliges. So this week, time to do some positive thinking (and I mean joyful thoughts) about where you go from here.

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SCORPIO

This week, you get a little down in the dumps. You imagine things like, why doesn’t someone show me they care – or, has my partner met someone else? Or if single, you feel empty and and unloved. But the positive benefits of the sun and Venus means it’s also time to say,  ‘I must assert my needs, let my partner know my fears.’ Fill yourself up with a sense of goodness because that’s actually what you’re hungry for. Don’t hold on to, or attach yourself to anger, hurt or pain. These are the real thieves who steal your energy and keep you from real love. Alexander the Great refused to be lured by the complications of untying the Gordian Knot, he just cut through it with his sword. And loving yourself and others is like that too. Slash through the knots in your heart. Then you will be loved just as you desire to be.

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SAGGITARIUS

Venus is giving you the sex factor. In fact, if you’re single and loving it, you could be swept off your feet by a very adventurous admirer before you’ve even had time to blink. But do take care if you rush in where angels fear to tread.  If attached, your facade is unruffled, your smile in place and your manners polished. In fact your partner begins to be proud of you in the nicest possible way.  But what lurks within? For all that outer charm, there’s a child within who wrestles with feelings of inadequacy. Maybe you fear that if your partner or new admirer looks too closely, they’ll see an ugly duckling, not a confident archer? But this week, you’re beginning to discover honest self-acceptance about who you really are.

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CAPRICORN

There is an ancient Greek belief that love or desire is felt most deeply when we can’t have what we want, and when we can have it, then love diminishes like the sun behind a cloud. Right now, I think you can relate to that sentiment. In fact I have a feeling that if you’re not involved in some deep, obsessive passion for someone you can’t have, then you’ll be feeling quite empty and rather bored. But it’s odd isn’t it? If you could have that person, if you could persuade or seduce them into loving you then the balance of power would change. You would then feel less desire for them. Perhaps right now, it’s the unavailability of passion itself which seem to lure you on. Let yourself be moved by love, rather than fight the flow.

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AQUARIUS

You at last feel in control of your life. There have been illusion and fantasies stripped away before your eyes. You have seen the truth behind one love affair and realised what it’s actually worth. Now you can see yourself as separate. You have definition, you’re not just somebody’s accessory or been left dangling in limbo like a puppet. You find a sense of authenticity in yourself. You discover an inner core that you can call your own. This week is a time to get to know yourself better. And a lover, partner or new admirer will also begin to see you in a new light.  How many times a week do you wish time wasn’t moving so fast? How many times a day do you wish your life was more exotic, inspiring or fulfilling? Probably millions, so dare to be yourself.

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PISCES

I suppose we are all hostages of fate and fortune, but that doesn’t mean we are powerless to change our destiny. In fact, I’m a believer in the idea that your character is basically your fate, and you are the sole trader responsible for your choices.  Yet there is also something else, a mysterious energy, synchronicity perhaps, which seems to come to us without making much choice at all. This week, you’re about to face a fabulous spot of synchronicity if single, and if attached, discover greater meaning behind why you’re with the one you’re with. All those theories you had about love, you know, ‘that there is a perfect arrangement, romance will last forever,’ suddenly seem to be viable. Could this actually be IT? And if it is IT, does that means there is nothing else to long for, to wonder at, to dream about? In your heart, you’ll never give up on your vision of eternal romance, so don’t deny your destiny. Time to live it out.