Love Horoscopes – January 11, 2013
Aries: Many of you have been quiet and reflective lately. You have drawn a lot of strength from those closest to you and this has helped put your closest emotional relationships into perspective. Now you want to put all of this to good use and you will have plenty of opportunity to do so. The energy today is all about social arrangements and communication. If you are attached this means you and love taking the time to catch up with each other and your friends, something that either way is a long time coming. If you are unattached, you may have a date soon that will really turn out to be a great one. You two will have plenty to talk about and make a rather nice connection. Just remember to listen to this person as much as you talk.
Taurus: There are a handful of you who desperately need this energy flowing through the Zodiac today. Things in your love life are in disharmony from what you hoped they would be and there have many emotional confrontations as a result. If you haven’t realized already, many of you are stuck in a rut or running over the same old ground. What you need to do is get talking, start socializing and doing something different so you can rediscover love and life. If you are attached then that means forcing your loved one to deal with the problems staring you both in the face. If you are unattached, let go of the past and move onward. You can’t be the person you want to be or be with the type of person you want if you can’t let go of what is holding you back.
Gemini: If you have been thinking of inviting friends around, or of organizing some kind of party, then you would do well to consider doing something impromptu. This is the ideal day for all kinds of events but also for communicating anything that needs to be said. If you’ve been thinking of telling someone how you feel – this is a good time to do so. You know just what you want right now and it’s not a good thing for anyone or anything that gets in your way! Now see, with that confidence it’s easy to try and dominate or push your needs and wants while being inconsiderate of others. Remember that it takes two to make any relationship work so do not let your ego or your tendency to be impatient and willful spoil the opportunity you were given.
Cancer: You are in a damn good mood today because you have made some real breakthroughs in your soul. You now are willing to try new and different approaches to love and live that are going to get you farther than doing nothing at all. This coincides nicely with the energy of the day as this is the time to enter into relationships with a renewed sense of love and compassion. Come out of your shell and put all of this good energy to use. If you are attached your loved one will appreciate this effort and make one of their own. They will give just as much as you to and you two will finally be able to meet in the middle on even ground. If you are unattached, people will be attracted to this light you radiate like a beacon and want more of you.
Leo: Everything is about communication today. Things will go so much better for you if you could leave some of your ego at home and focus on the meaning behind words and actions. For instance when your love interest starts to share with you, don’t trump their conversation with how much you know or have seen. You may have done quite a bit in your life but let them have their experiences as well. If you are attached and you feel your lover is speaking to you using some sort of cryptic language, do not automatically think the worst, they may be trying to compliment you. Lastly, do not become suspicious of messages from those you might consider unexpected. They are really just friendly “hello” and “let’s do lunch” messages.
Virgo: Many of you will have a reason to celebrate so don’t stay inside, this calls for something much bigger than your kitchen table. Gather your lover and your friends, head out to your favorite hang out and have some fun. For those of you who may have a first date tonight, go into it with an open mind. You could really enjoy yourself if you just loosen up and stop over thinking everything that’s said and done. Once you start to analyze everything, you find yourself annoyed with your surroundings or the food and by the end of the night you have grown frustrated with the one you are with. Now this is hardly fair, isn’t it? Do not cheat yourself out of what could be a great evening and a potential romantic interest.
Libra: Many of you will find that today, people respond very easily to your natural charm and grace. You will be the one getting everyone’s attention not your actions. This energy surrounding you provides a great chance to meet new people and create friendships as well as maybe becoming reacquainted with those from your past. You will also have many opportunities for socializing this week so if you are looking for romance now is the time to take control. You certainly won’t have a problem finding a date once you get going. Whatever you do, try not to be outlandish or excessive. This light surrounding you also brings the gossip. Haters will still hate but their jealousy will follow you around like a dark cloud.
Scorpio: The planetary alignment brings a very lighthearted and happy energy to the day. This is an excellent time to learn more about your own inner depths and those of a romantic partner. To help facilitate this, there should be a great depth to your conversations, so much that you find yourself revealing secrets or very private matters. For those of you who have something you really need to say, air to clear, then this would be a good time to do so. You will find that it is much easier to communicate your message without having to resort to underhanded tactics. For the first time in a long time you feel confident about being completely honest with your sweetheart and not have to exaggerate or manipulate just to make your point heard.
Sagittarius: You feel rather open but that openness is limited because you are feeling reflective rather than expressive. This introverted behavior puts a hamper on your general life today but lightens up the mood in your intimate affairs. You have been reflecting on your feelings, emotional needs, and desires for closeness and a sense of belonging. What you have realized is that what you thought was or is potentially problematic actually isn’t. If anything the only real problem in your relationship is feeling at ease enough to truly communicate, good or bad. That comes with time and trust, something you two have plenty of in order to get acclimated. Clearing this air is a good thing; celebrate by making each other smile and focusing on humor today.
Capricorn: The energy surrounding you is easy and lighthearted today especially when it comes to your intimate affairs. Many of you may be forced to see just how important your real values are rather than the material ones you may have held on to. This is a time where you are sensitive to the feelings of others and are able to anticipate their needs. Being able to do this effectively gives you the opportunity to give generously of yourself to those you care deeply for. This may be something your relationship is in desperate need of so if you are attached, make sure you include some quality time with your sweetheart. Take the evening out and paint the town red! Whatever it takes to bring back that sense of love and harmony that was so prevalent before.
Aquarius: Your appreciation for love and life in general is heightened today. You may start to improve things at home with some redecorating and refreshing which will give you a different perspective all around. As you spruce things up with new colors or furnishings you realize that you want move on to more of the finer things in life. To do so you want to get socializing and go out to any parties and events where you can make contact with new people. The more connections you make the richer your life becomes on many levels. Following this energy will help those who are looking for romance find love that supersedes physical attraction and gets you on a more intellectual manner. You will be building a relationship meant to last.
Pisces: You may find that all you can do is laugh today. This is a good thing considering how blah you have been feeling lately but not everyone may be there yet. Don’t be surprised if those you are close to do not share in your sense of humor. Be nice and curb your enthusiasms but only after they shoot you a dirty look or two. Let today be about you making you happy rather than everyone else. But understand there is a very fine line on what to take seriously and what to laugh away. Though this is a happy energy, it will also very easy to get into a pointless arguments today with those closest to you. When in doubt, agree to disagree if at all possible and don’t let these disagreements upset you. Just think before you speak and all will be fine.