Love Horoscopes – January 13, 2013
Aries: Your personal relationships may need to go through a change. A new romance or friendship may come about today or an old or current one may take a turn for the better. Whichever scenario, you feel the positive energy from it. Don’t be thrown off if you have to endure a rough patch or two before you get to the good stuff. If you are going through this, it is time to adapt and embrace a new and more since way of interacting with each other. It doesn’t need to be all roses and rainbows but it does need to be a genuine display of affection or attention. If you try to maintain the partnership as it was in the past, then it may go downhill even more. Let the warmth you are radiating be your guide through this.
Taurus: Many of you will have the urge to change or try new things. These changes will likely challenge and upset your lives or support system. There are many of you who need it as it is time to go your separate ways in a relationship. You know that deep in your heart this is the right thing to do, but you have been resisting for old time’s sake. There is no need to hang on to the relationship any further; it has long set sail without you. There is nothing wrong with wanting to follow your heart but not when it does not serve you purpose. Take the time you need to reflect on current events. Move the stages of grief at your own pace but get through them so you can move on. Think it all through then let it go.
Gemini: Because personal subjects are the topic of discussion now, do not be surprised if any emotions, prejudices, or unresolved issues from the past come up. Reminiscing, remembering or daydreaming about and reflecting on the past is likely for you today. Hopefully what some of this helps you realize is that you have a rather close personal relationship is in need of a change. In order to revitalize this, you should take a look at the emotions or issues you have been trying to ignore or leave behind. Though you may not be very objective about this, you won’t be able to help but see what is clearly right in front of you. Once you do, speak up and clear the air of any grievances you have been holding on to for some time.
Cancer: This is a good time to mend fences and repair problems and issues in your life. Thanks to energy surrounding you, some of you will be dealing with the emotional difficulty plaguing your intimate affairs. Now having a problem doesn’t mean the end of all you know, it means that you really do need to sit down together and talk this out open and honestly. If you two can truly share what you feel, even your hopes and fears, you two have every chance of restoring and improving the intimacy between you two. But this can only be accomplished by actually sharing what each of your feels from the heart. Going through this may bring about an appreciation or respect for someone older that is close to you. It makes a difference in your life.
Leo: Yes, it is absolutely baffling when someone thwarts your advances and doesn’t seem at all affected by your natural charm and beauty. Do they not know who you are? Do they not know all you have? They do and they don’t care. Don’t let this become an obsession for you. Simply lick your wounds, chalk a line into the very small lose column and leave any heavy discussions behind you. Since he or she is not responding to your obvious declarations of desire, it is time to turn your attentions on to someone else you may like rather than make a fool of yourself. You do not want to focus on dry, practical matters, not when the energy of the day is full of friendly and harmonious tones. Who cares now who you don’t have, focus on who you will have.
Virgo: Right now you are focused on contentment and emotional well being in your love life. This should really be a time of relaxation and indulging in what brings you pleasure but some of you will not be able to enjoy that energy. Many of you who are or up until recently were attached, may want to reflect upon the recent problems you have or still are enduring. You really should try and understand the source of all this negativity so that you can move past it. It is entirely possible that a few of your old bad habits have resurfaced and caused you to limit or hide some of your emotional expression. Ask yourself why so you can make a change that will stick. Spending time alone while you work through this will help you make progress faster.
Libra: Relationships could be rather intense today. Because things are heating up, be careful how you approach the special someone in your life. If you have been putting off having this talk with your sweetheart, it is time to do so now. You’ll need to present how you feel in a practical manner, so there won’t be any misunderstandings what you are trying to do and accomplish for both of you. Things do need to change and they will, but not if you continue to burying your head in the sand. Talking honestly about how you feel could transform things more quickly than you think. Go on! Be brave! You should have had this conversation a long time ago. Think of where you would be now if you had.
Scorpio: This is a good time to take stock of your life, to see how you are limiting and holding yourself back, and to determine your next steps. For some of you, a situation between you and your lover has come to a head and you need to work out where you are going together. For many of you who are unattached, it is the matter of letting go any misconceptions to see what is really there in front of you. In either scenario, you know how it should be, but may not be able to reconcile yourself with how it is. You are getting lost in your emotions rather than being present in your love life. But because you are frustrated with what is left over, do not take whatever setbacks you experience to heart. Don’t move forward until you get over this situation.
Sagittarius: Any other time you are first involved but today you are forced to deal with something that you have long loved to ignore. Whatever this particular romantic situation you must face happens to be, you really should let go of whatever was holding you back from acknowledging it. Because of the energy surrounding you, you can easily tackle this with confidence as you are a bit competitive and determined today. Once you get going you will find that it really isn’t all that bad. For some of you, these hot blooded emotions you feel may lead you to be impatient and temperamental. Do not be surprised if you have a series of emotional confrontations with those closest to you or that they are about unresolved feelings and issues from the past.
Capricorn: If you have been focused on things other than your love life, your attentions will be pulled back today. The energy of the day is urging you to take some direction and lay down the foundations of both wealth and love through friendship or intimacy. Because you can be your own worst enemy, this energy surrounding you is attempting to tear down a few of your walls to allow all sorts of pleasantries and desires through. If you happen to be attached, many of you will have a confrontation of sorts with your lover first, before you can enjoy any of those above mentioned pleasantries. You have been casting your relationship aside lately and need to make up for it before things turn into a disaster. Once you atone, things will get better.
Aquarius: Many of you are all up in arms over something that isn’t really there. Those of you bitten by the green-eyed monster are so jealous and out of sorts that you of all people may declare that you will never, ever, ever, fall in love again or get back with your sweetie. This could all have been avoided with a bit of communication between you and the person involved. For some of you, the other person in this equation has no idea what you feel or that you are even an option for them. Others will be reminded that they are human and suffer pain for their love and passions just like any other. Because of the energy of the day, communicating should lead to more intimate moments and profound revelations. Let’s get that back on track.
Pisces: Right now, those closest to you see you as someone who is a loving and lovable person that is aware of their needs and feelings. On the other hand you feel as if you are a powder-keig of energy and emotions waiting to be unleashed. You may be able to pull of this façade of being composed and in control but you know that you cannot hide your feelings any longer. If you don’t say something, you cannot then be held responsible for what may happen next. But why haven’t you said something? There should be nothing holding you back especially when your charm and attractiveness is reinforced by the energy of the day. Use whatever control you have left and talk to the person you need to speak with. Be careful not to overwhelm him or her.