Love Horoscopes – January 21, 2013
Aries: Right now you may want to take things slow and easy in your love life. This is really the best way to handle things especially if you thought you knew where you stood as far as a certain relationship was concerned. Though you may feel more confused than ever, the trick to staying both calm and sane is to stop trying to make sense of this. Honestly, none of this makes any sense and the more you try to work it out, the more you could things worse. Instead, take these next few days and be by yourself. Indulge in your fantasies and focus on what makes you happy rather than trying to work out what is what. The answers you are looking for will work themselves out in its own time, just hang in there.
Taurus: For many of you, your love life may undergo some changes at this time. The driving force behind these changes is your impatient and demanding need to achieve what you feel a superior relationship would be. While you are looking for greater sincerity, honesty, and understanding between you and your sweetheart, your love is struggling to be this perfect person you seem to expect. No one is perfect and while you may know this, your subconscious isn’t on the same page. Have a heart to heart with your love now and save you both the heartache later. Maintaining a more balanced viewpoint on love will help you keep it going for as long as possible.
Gemini: There is so much going on over the next few days that your head and heart may be spinning for some time to come. You are a talkative sign, one who loves to ask questions and learn all they can about those they meet. Sometimes, you do not appreciate how others insist on getting personal with the questions they ask of you. Many of you may meet someone who is just as inquisitive and interested in you. Take it as a compliment that they really want to get to know you. Besides, this person will likely invoke your endless curiosity. He or she is a little mysterious and rather intriguing. You will likely find out more about them and end up finding out things that verbal communication just doesn’t cover. That is where you’ll find the quality information.
Cancer: This is a good day for you, love and romance. For many of you an opportunity for a romance may come your way. Though it is likely to be exciting but short-lived, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give it a chance. The more you meet new people and become more open to those who are different from yourself, the more you may have these shorter romances. It just gets you ready for the epic love that will come for you. If you are attached, you should take a good look at something you think is going on. Many of you may have jumped to conclusions about certain aspects of your partner’s behavior. If you take a deeper look, you will see they are not acting against you; in fact they only had your interests at heart.
Leo: Many of you have achieved some level of clarity in your quest for self reinvention. As long as your keep your head and heart are on the same page, you will maintain that lucidity. Part of your clarity has shown you the way to express your feelings with conviction to the one who has your heart. Now there are quite a few ways that you can go about this but make sure it doesn’t include your tendency to over exaggerate. Do not make yourself out to be something that you are not. Who you are actually impresses people far more than you think. In fact, who you really are is much better than who you come up with. So whether you have someone in your sights or just began dating, it’s you they want to get to know, not someone who doesn’t exist.
Virgo: You are emotionally driven right now but make sure this stays positive rather than become compulsive or demanding. Granted you have the tendency to be controlling but there are two of you involved in this relationship, time to act like it. Turn this powder keg of emotions into something that will deepen and renew your connection. Be more imaginative, think of ways to grow closer to the one who has your heart in a way that is warm and inviting instead of cold and calculating. Just be open and honest, by revealing what you are comfortable with of yourself, you will be praised rather than criticized or ridiculed. You will see it doesn’t always have to be so black and white with love.
Libra: Your spirits are high at this time and you seemingly woke up with a new attitude and fresh outlook on love and life. This mood has opened your heart to optimism, generosity and happiness. Use this confidence to get back out into the dating world if you are unattached. Forget the mistakes of the past and envision new romantic adventures and possibilities. If you are attached, this will be a great to spend quality time with your lover. This may involved quite a bit of fantasy and if you are feeling bold, a video camera. Just remember to lock up those files when you are done! Never the less today you want to be out and about having fun. You have been too reserved and maybe even jaded, it’s time to let that all go and look forward.
Scorpio: There will be a shift in your mood that leaves more emotionally sensitive than usual. So if it has been difficult expressing your thoughts or feelings, it won’t get any better for you over the next few days. Now this may take a lot of energy out of you but you will need to employ other avenues to get your point across. So this may mean buying a card, gifting something or if you are really skillful, cooking a meal. Words can mean everything but when you can’t find the words, actions can often speak louder and more directly. During this time don’t take anything that seems negative too seriously. This energy flowing through these next few days has an element of confusion, no need to be hurt if it wasn’t the intention.
Sagittarius: Many of you have been spending time quietly and privately reflecting on what makes you happy. Some of you are unattached and thinking about getting back into dating while others may be a turning point in their relationship and don’t know if you should move forward or stand still. You find you are more interested in what makes us all different. Why we love the way we do or don’t and what is it that draws us all together. You will take in the subtle qualities of personality and characteristics of all those close to you and see if you can take the good from their actions. There is nothing more to the next few days then your contemplation of love and life as well as the answers that follow. You will receive those answers.
Capricorn: Many of you need a break. Let go of your routines and try something different. Whether it is going somewhere that will stimulate your imagination or just indulging in what brings you pleasure, you need to relax. The energy surrounding you has been a little dismal; when you take a break from all your worries you radiate a wonderful aura that attracts love and friendship to you. If you are an unattached Capricorn, you probably shouldn’t let this opportunity pass you by. As you get you back in touch with your capacity to really enjoy yourself, those around you will pick up on this. Don’t be surprised if your friends are friendlier and lovers more loving. Everything can wait until tomorrow; today you should stop and smell the roses.
Aquarius: You may find yourself challenged on a rather sensitive issue that has developed in your love life. This has brought on its share of arguments and uncomfortable discussions. Things may have grown very tense between you and the one who has your heart and you have been thinking about ways to handle and resolve this situation. This journey has touched upon some very emotional parts of you and has made some aspects this affair quite clear. You suddenly see that the way in which you two have been behaving is entirely unsuitable for the direction in which you had hoped this relationship was heading. You can do better, you both can do better. Reclaim the intimacy that has dissipated and reconnect. This will all become a distant memory.
Pisces: Over the next few days you’ll likely gain whatever it is you desire through your natural charm and sense of diplomacy. Don’t let yourself grow too bold otherwise you may upset the balance in energy surrounding you and end up with nothing and no one. Now is the time for subtle and pleasant interactions especially in your love life. Because you’re in a good mood generally speaking, you may feel as if you can say whatever you want when it comes to expressing your feelings for the one who has your heart. Some things are better left unsaid or brought to light in a more private forum. Go on and be expressive during this time, just in a slightly reserved way. If you are unattached, this will draw to you. If you are attached this will help maintain harmony.