Love Horoscopes – March 5, 2013
Aries: The feelings you are suppressing have become compulsive and are threatening to break free. Take a deep breath first then count to ten; you are in for a bumpy ride today. When certain situations arise, sometimes you become afraid to get to the bottom of what is really happening around you. It isn’t that you aren’t courageous, it’s just you don’t feel like dealing with heartache. What you need right now, more than anything, is to confront what is before you. It is time to see what you don’t want to see in your love life. Stop operating in the sea between despair and blind faith, start questioning everyone’s motives, including your own. The only way you will ever heal is to know all that is going on and acting accordingly.
Taurus: For many of you, your love life is in knots and you cannot figure out a way to undo it. The only way to untangle this mess is to confront your problems head on. There will be some difficult decisions to make and things come to light that you may not be prepared for. Before you do, you need to get your mind in order and left the weight from your heart. Spending time with friends would be ideal. Socializing will do wonders for your spirit and is exactly what you need at the moment. If this is a last ditch effort in your relationship then some quality time with your lover will help you with your decision. Do things you have not done in quite some time. See if the spark comes back.
Gemini: If anyone is to get stuck in a conflict with issues that are the two sides of the same coin, it would be you. There is a confident feel in your love life right now but you don’t know if you can trust it. You want desperately to trust what you feel and the person you feel it for but you can’t bring yourself to trust anyone. If it feels right, then it probably is but can you follow through? There are issues that you are not being honest about it may have to do with why you feel the way you do. Once you express your feelings honestly and you both are on the same page with what you truly need for each other, how you feel about the situation as a whole may change.
Cancer: What are you focusing on when it comes to your love life? During this time some underlying or previously hidden aspects will come to light now and you will be forced to confront and deal with what is no longer working for you. In order to deal with this properly it may help if you look at things from a variety of perspectives rather than one narrow point of view. Doing so will cause you to take the wrong kind of action and miss seeing where the fault really lies. Take your time finding out as many facts as you can before jumping to a conclusion. You want this change or adjustment to be positive and progressive not negative and regressive. There is no rush so look at your love life from as many angles as you can.
Leo: There is a lot going on in your mind and you may feel like escaping from the days realities for a while. It has been rather difficult to get your bearings so maybe if you slow things down, it might make it easier. Some of you may be having a hard time trying to decide what to do about that special someone in your life. You care for them deeply but can find a thousand reasons to dismissing them. Things have been at a standstill between you two because of this. Something about this person fascinates you no end while still sounding the warning bell. From a logical point of view, you know you need to either move on or move forward with this person. Take a day or two to figure this out and stick with your conclusion.
Virgo: Being open and honest can be hard, especially if you are trying to spare someone’s feelings. If you are attached, there are problems in your love life that can be deduced like a mathematical equation, emotions are not built that way. You are not happy and continuing to lie about what you truly need from your relationship is not helping matters either. If you do not know what it is you really feel then you should sit down and figure that out. If you do know then it behooves you speak up rather than hold on to the brewing animosity that you created by your actions. If you are unattached, you may meet a series of people who you interest you sexually. You are feeling rather frisky at the moment; you might want to take advantage of this time.
Libra: You are one to catalog all of the mistakes or imperfections of the one who has your heart. It may even become a sport to create a list of criticisms rather than looking at what attracted you to this person in the first place. Many of your friends and family may have offered your weight in advice but before you take it, take a good look at this person you care for. Are his or hers more redeeming qualities just temporarily obscured? This could very well be a promising relationship so before you start looking at all the reasons for calling it off, think about why you might want to stay. Take a risk now or you will always be wondering what if. Thanks to your current frame of mind you can take this chance without committing any further than you have.
Scorpio: If you have someone special in your life you may be noticing more of what is going wrong rather than what is going right. You have all but physically withdrawn from the relationship and are being very cold and distant to your sweetheart. However, now would be the time to sit down with him or her and discuss your needs and desires. They are not being met and it is entirely possible theirs aren’t either. But the energy surrounding you makes agreements and cooperation easier to obtain if you are open and honest with how you feel. You know that this relationship is the right one for you, somehow you two veered off the path. It is easy enough at this juncture to get back on.
Sagittarius: If you are having second thoughts or doubts about someone you care for, now is the time to deal with it and not run from the problems. Deal with it internally first. Have you had this or a similar problem in the past, how was it dealt with? Search your feelings, it is likely you will see it more clearly now. It may help you see if your current situation is really more positive than it is negative. Once you have figured it out, have the discussion with your sweetheart. These faults you see can be fixed, there is no need to try and ignore or hide from them. As this current situation reaches resolution, it is entirely possible that you may be able to put to rest some of those old issues from your past as well.
Capricorn: Sudden unexpected events may cause some trouble today and you may not be able to trust what your instincts are trying so hard to tell you. For some of you, someone pushing you to hard and to fast into a commitment you really aren’t ready for. So hard in fact you begin to question your own emotions and wisdom. You may be at the point where even though the course of action may not make logical sense, you are considering it. If you are already attached, this will not remedy the shortcomings in your relationship. The answer is not to confine yourself even further, the answer to break free of the problems disrupting the harmony you once enjoyed. If you are unattached, this person in question may not be right for you.
Aquarius: Sometimes things happen because we allow them to happen. If you are not happy with certain aspects of your love life, you are the only one with the power to change it. With this in mind you must take care not to be too aggressive, come on too strong, or trying to force your own will onto others. You have played a part in this as well. Hopefully you have realized that you will not to be happy if you only wanted to be with this person so you can have certain things, rather than because you genuinely liked this person. Your need to be in control and dominate has likely to back fire and if it hasn’t already, leave you alone instead of with someone to love. If it has come this far, then you only have yourself to blame.
Pisces: It is time to put aside the negative feelings in your live life and allow a positive expression of love to flow freely. Thanks to the energy surrounding you, an opportunity for a significant development in your love life is present. Whether it is about a relationship you are already in or strong feelings of attraction to someone new, progress can and will be made if you can push aside any preconceived notions you have and give it a chance. You are likely holding on to ideals that are outdated rather than trying to relate to the person right in front of you. Look deeper into this person, you will be able to see plain as day what is right or not right. Put those judgments aside Pisces, or you will lose out.