Love Horoscopes – May 4, 2013
Aries: You are off your game, your love life is off its game and you would rather stay in bed than face the world. Yes you could use an escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life so that you can relax and collect yourself. Sadly, there are a few things you will have to do first before you can enjoy this relaxation. If you are attached, do not take your sweetheart’s mood personal. This energy swirling about is causing a negative feel to everything and their emotions happen to be one of them. Let them be alone with their thoughts and give them some space to come to whatever conclusions they need to. Just let them know where they can find you when they are done. If you are unattached, stick with casual activities for now. Save the rest for a better time.
Taurus: Though the energy swirling about is negative in its base, there is a certain stability that allows you to accomplish things. This will be particularly helpful in your love life or lack thereof. If you are attached you may feel it is difficult to express exactly what you want to say but if you can keep your emotions conservative, then you can feel free to say what you need to. Your emotions are strong but your sweetheart isn’t capable of handling them right now so go easy. Calm your overactive imagination can come back to reality, what you actually see and truly feel. Once you do, all this worrying and anticipation will go away. If you are looking for love you will find that you are holding yourself back. Why is that? Really? Now let it go.
Gemini: What would normally be a light and easy time in your life has become a bit twisted under the current planetary alignment. Not everything will flow well today but that doesn’t mean you can’t help it along. If you are unattached, you can make positive connections during this time so long as you let it happen and not have a bunch of reasons for it not to. Sometimes you are your own worst enemy and this would be one of those days. If you are attached you and your sweetheart may find yourselves in opposite corners of a square ring. Do not let indecision or vague assumptions keep you boxed in the corner. Come out swinging by confronting the truth. Do what needs to be done to put an end to this ridiculousness.
Cancer: Communicating may become difficult for you under the influence of today’s energy. Your imagination is heightened and as well as your intuition but your judgment is fuzzy and your ability to focus on the here and now are diminished. Because your practical reasoning is off, you might not want to make any important decisions or deal with complex matters. Though speaking of complexities, many of you have a first date and while your imagination helps with romance, conveying those thoughts will not be easy. Rather than be tongue tied, turn the focus of your conversation towards your date. It will be easier for you to focus on what they are saying and further the conversation by interjecting your comments that way.
Leo: You are feeling loving and appreciative but those around you may not be. If you are attached your sweetheart may be ignoring your or increasing their distance. Because you don’t know why, your romantic high has crashed causing you to withdraw into hurt silence. It doesn’t have to be this way, so don’t go back to bed and pull the covers over your head. The energy swirling about has a negative energy but it can be circumvented. Just ask what is going on. Express how their actions are making you feel and that you think it may be helpful to talk through this difficulty. Speak in the right tone and they will take down their wall and remove the distance between you two. Be patient and be kind.
Virgo: Like so many today, you have miscalculated the actual value of a particular problem. This is not entirely your fault as this energy swirling about actually encourages a crooked view causing you to make a mountain out of a molehill with everything you see. For those of you attached a small problem may bubble up between you and your lover that seems completely insurmountable. Your loved one will not be able to understand why it is such a problem and create more tension. This may open your eyes so you can see that it is all in your mind and that it really isnt as bad as you thought. Once you get it out of your head things will go back to normal between you and your love. In fact you will be the one to wonder what all the fuss was about.
Libra: There may be some of you going through a rather emotional time right now. It is causing you to lash out or get cranky towards those who are not involved in the main problem. If your lover is among those catching fire, address that problem first. Often times it is easy to deal with the smaller issues before tackling the bigger ones. Whatever idea or plan that you are against that they want to push forward with, talk it out. Seriously. No you are not in the mood for this but you really don’t want to butt heads with your loved one. You need him or her to help you through the big problems. Talk about what is going on, why you fell the way you do and then incorporate everything else that is going on. You will get through this with them by your side.
Scorpio: Thankfully your intuition is on the mark today and your will reactions fit the complexities going on around you. Give the influence of today’s energy, you couldn’t ask for anything better. Use this to your advantage today and spread as much good will as you possibly can. If you are attached, share your good mood and love with your sweetheart. A wink here and playful pat there will put you two on the road to satisfaction both emotionally and physically. If you have a date tonight, it won’t be easy for you. Both of you may be nervous and distracted by any lack of confidence. You have a hard time talking about yourself so start things off by talking about them. Conversation will get easy and before you know it, it will be flow as if there was nothing wrong.
Sagittarius: This energy can make communicating difficult so if your lover seems exceptionally silent, this may not be the best time to pressure him or her for a reason. If do you insist on pressuring them into giving you some kind of an answer, then you will make the situation even worse regardless of your intent. You may not want to hear this but the best you can do is to leave them alone until they are ready to speak. No patience is not easy for you but be patient and know it will all be just fine. Do not waste energy by creating or allowing yourself to be drawn into an argument. Your sweetheart needs you to help them, or protect them not have you as another obstacle to avoid or knock over.
Capricorn: Many of you may have overly pessimistic view of everything around you, including your love life. While this would be a great time to plan and establish direction in your relationship (if you so are attached), a serious discussion with your sweetheart may continue to darken your mood. If you can find a way to be realistic and shed this downturn, you will make progress, and will feel a lot better about everything. If you cant get yourself to relax and change perspective, know that someone else may stage an intervention. You really should relax right now. Your stress levels have been high recently and it is taken a toll on everything in your life. It’s time to put back into yourself so that you can be the best for you and those you love.
Aquarius: If your love life has been a little flat lately today is the day to do something about it. You have been going back and forth between withdrawing into your shell and hiding or facing what you think are your worst fears. The better option is to face this situation head on, especially if you are attached. What you believe is happening is likely not happening. Once you get to the bottom of everything you want to get the relationship back on track as soon as you can. You will feel better and you two can move on to setting up a romantic rendezvous in an unusual place or just doing out of the ordinary. If you are unattached, hiding isn’t going to change the situation. You need to get out and do some socializing, romance is in the air.
Pisces: Like with anyone, feeling cared for and needed is what makes you feel secure and comfortable. Recently there has been a lack of this and you are feeling of uneasy and nervous. In general, you will need to put yourself out there emotionally in order to get to back to where you feel better. If you are unattached, this will help you to start attracting someone of like mind into your life. If you are attached, opening yourself up could help you discover what is really going on between you and your loved one. What you will need to do is detach yourself from the situation and try to look at it from a dispassionate viewpoint. This won’t be easy but it will help you get to the bottom of all of this. If you let your emotions rule you then you will miss the point.