Love Horoscopes – May 13, 2013
Aries: This is one of those days where your ability to quickly adapt will be your greatest asset. There will likely be a handful of unexpected events and confining situations that you will need to break free from. One thing you can expect is that your usual routine will be disrupted now. Many of you, attached or unattached, may find yourselves boxed in a corner by someone pushing you to hard and to fast into a commitment you really aren’t ready for. This could be your parent, lover or friend that thinks they know what is best for you and want to make sure you get it. If you happen to have a date tonight, in a completely unrelated fashion, it could be a rather passionate affair. This will likely be intellectual not romantic but still engaging none the less.
Taurus: Many of you are at a point in your relationship where choices need to be made. This will likely be difficult and you may have to make a few compromises you would rather not make. But if you want your relationship to develop, then you will need to take some sort of positive action. Now this doesn’t need to be awkward and really doesn’t need anything special per say but what it needs is for you to set aside any outdated notions you may have and focus on the here and now. Set aside some private time so no one else can get in the way of the feelings you want to share. When you do begin this conversation remember that flattery will get you everywhere so use it with that wonderful charm you possess.
Gemini: Your focus is on emotional satisfaction and security. For many of you attached, you realized that you are not getting it from your current relationship. Though you still feel affection for this person, it could be time to say goodbye. You are looking to lay down some roots and build a future with someone. This person has either come right out and said that they are not that type of person or their actions have spoken louder than any words can. Affection is one thing, and you two have plenty of that but otherwise, you two are not ideally suited any other way. As you break it off, turn this into a positive by focusing on the new found freedom you two will have, not the loss shared.
Cancer: While your relationships in general are particularly pleasant and productive now, your love life may not be working out very well… or as well as you would like it to be. Although you may have experienced difficulties in this relationship, there is real hope for healing. What you need to do is sit your sweetheart down and discuss your feelings with a realistic rather than idealistic outlook about your life together. Thankfully the energy surrounding you has enhanced cooperation and optimism. Don’t give up on this relationship just yet. As you work towards resolution, one approach may fail and your plan b may as well but one you thought was a long a shot, may suddenly seem viable. Go with it.
Leo: You may feel frustrated as to where your love life is heading now. You know that there is something that needs to be sorted out, and yet it cannot be done with words alone. On one hand you are feeling sentimental about your current relationship and know you still care deeply for your lover. But on the other hand you are feeling quite ruthless and cannot be bothered to give a damn after recent events. While this is not the best of days to make plans or decisions you need to take action. Take a day or two and formulate a plan, one that shows you mean exactly what you say. Right now, exercise a little self control and remember tomorrows another day and a new perspective. You need to approach this situation with a clear head.
Virgo: There may be a lot of chaos surrounding you right now but if you look for it, it could bring you a silver lining. If your love life could use a lift, this type of energy is just what you need. Now you may have to do some work, more than you are used to, but it will pay off in huge dividends. If you are attached though, you are looking at healing a rift that has seemingly grown leaps and bounds. When you sit down and try to resolve this, you will have to deal with not only your intense emotions but those of your sweethearts as well. If you are not careful, you could make matters worse if you let your mouth run away with you. What you want to do is be compassionate, but also not spend time wasting words. You can make this work, turn on the charm.
Libra: You would like to have a romantic evening with your loved one but you may have a few things to get out of the way first. If you are wondering whether or not you should approach the matter first or enjoy a nice evening together… that is up to you. If you think you can have a conversation with your sweetheart and not lose your temper, then by all means do so. If not, save it for later and focus on the passionate atmosphere you worked so hard to create. Put whatever it is on the back burner for now and turn your attention to teasing and flirting with your lover. Instead of talking about the problems of the day, talk about intimate desires and needs you would like fulfilled. Whatever these problems are, they will still be there tomorrow. Enjoy tonight!
Scorpio: Personal relationships are harmonious and rewarding. Opportunities for friendship, pleasant associations and enjoyable social interactions occur now. This positive energy now surrounding you will open your eyes and help you understand the reason behind some of the problems in your personal relationships and much of that you may have unknowingly created. Much of it has to do with some expectations that you had hoped, in time, would be fulfilled. As of now they have yet to be and you find yourself harboring enough resentment to be openly frustrated and distant. Now that you see the root of the problem, sit down with your loved one and get this in order. Don’t forget to let them know that you still love and appreciate them.
Sagittarius: You are likely to feel intense today, so if you are going out on a date, especially a first date, you may be wise to watch that you don’t get too carried away. The alignment indicates that the two of you could either get on extremely well, or find that, despite an initial attraction, there are irreconcilable differences in your opinions. Remain open and aware. Though should the latter prevail, don’t let any annoying disagreements that may occur upset you. When your emotions are fired up you can really cut someone as if you are using a knife. Be careful what you say and think before you speak. If it doesn’t work out between you two it will be easy to get into a pointless argument. Remember you share mutual friends and must remain civil.
Capricorn: If you find yourself alone by the end of the day, ask yourself how much of it was really your fault? You are rather critical today and could very well end up saying something to your friends and/or lover that they find rather hurtful. Though you may wish it were better delivered, you truly believe whatever it is you said that has caused him or her to sulk. You need to soften this blow while doing your best to remain honest. Compassion and honesty do go well together and you can heal this rift created if you put forth a gallant effort. No one is asking you to sugar coat this but a little tenderness wouldn’t hurt right about now. They may dislike you right now but they will thank you later.
Aquarius: Because deeply personal subjects will be the topic discussion now, you may find yourself reminiscing about and reflecting upon your past. Of course this will lead to emotions, prejudices, or unresolved issues to come back up and ruining your objectivity. You can either choose to build even higher walls around yourself, or realize that doing so will not help you in build a solid foundation within your current relationship. Use this time to speak up and clear the air of any grievances you have been holding on to for some time, ones that actually pertain to this relationship. You have a choice, you can hold on to certain grudges or, in the spirit of genuine love, let go of this nonsense and focus on building a solid bridge between you and your love.
Pisces: Many of you may find this time frustrating as you try to make progress in your intimate affairs. If you are attached, your loved one is being difficult and can’t seem to agree with anything you suggest. Because you cannot see eye to eye, tensions are mounting and you are both losing focus. If you really want progress, force a conversation where you two sit down and have a genuine heart to heart discussion. Do not leave the table until things are mutually satisfying. If you are unattached, you be having a terrible time finding someone substantial. Don’t take it to personally; think outside of your boundaries. Take some time to yourself and see where you may be limiting or holding yourself back. This will help you move forward.