Love Horoscopes – May 20, 2013
Aries: Actions speak louder than words today. If you are attached things may feel a little distant with your partner. He or she seems more withdrawn than usual. It is likely they need some quiet reflection in order to work through some sort of personal problems. They will appreciate time alone to sort through the matter themselves before they voice what the problem was. Don’t worry, things will be back to normal soon. If you are unattached, an encounter with someone you are strongly attracted to is possible at this time. You will both be sizing each other up, evaluating each other before going any further. Just remember that you should always choose your toys wisely and play with them nicely.
Taurus: Though you are able to be very clear and concise with other people, you have a slight problem communicating with someone very close to you. Perhaps you are in love with your boss and don’t know how to talk about your feelings. Or maybe this is a new relationship and the person is somewhat older than you. Either way there is some sort of significant difference. Though take care when bringing up any desires or your differences, you do not want to offend or stir up bad feelings from misunderstanding you. The trick here is to be subtle, yet totally honest and firm in your feelings and convictions. Let your confidence take over. Others will be inclined to believe in what you say and do by your actions. Just do not abuse this today.
Gemini: This is a very positive time in your marriage or closest love relationships. Your need to be together and to share loving feelings is very strong. But you can’t help but feel something is a little off. Sure two have a powerful physical attraction toward each other, but as you well know by now, there is more to a relationship than this. Try taking a closer look at the way you both communicate with each other and see if you can perhaps improve on it. Whether you find something or not, this will do wonders for your mind and make you feel more at ease. If you are unattached, you may meet someone who will be very good for you in the long run. You may not believe it at first. Give this person a chance and you will see.
Cancer: Your desires for love, companionship, and affection are where your mind is focused now. A new friendship or romance could begin, or an established relationship can be revitalized and enhanced. As far as the latter, you may finally have the chance to get to talk to someone you truly care for about a serious issue. This is a topic of conversation you have been putting off for quite some time now, but now realize that you can no longer do so. This needs to be discussed and discussed now. Do your best to ignore your fears and get on with it. Once you do, all will be well. As far as beginning a new relationship, if there is someone you have wanted to speak with, doing so now is likely to create a strong connection and be the start of something wonderful.
Leo: Many of you may be temperamental and inclined to act on your emotion and desire rather than reason. You will be a little cranky today. Minor annoyances and others’ idiosyncrasies will aggravate you more than usual causing you to be in a fighting mood. Take a few deep breathes if you encounter this and let the anger roll off of you. Meanwhile those of you attached may have something to say to your partner that you have been trying to for some time. It has been hard getting your feelings in order and even harder to get yourself ready to be heard. Tell him or her now how much you love them NOW or else you will lose your nerve. Will this be daunting? Yes. You have never spoken in this way before, but if you can! Be brave lion you are, it’s worth it.
Virgo: This is one of those days where if you want something and if you ask the right person, you may get it. Those of you unattached may get asked out on a date by someone who has some sort authority, maybe over you. While you are someone who is force to be reckoned with, you may feel a little intimidated by their position and outwardly appearance. Your nerves are buzzing and you might start to wonder what you two will talk about. However, there is absolutely no need to worry – just be you. Go with your feelings and you’ll be surprised by what’s at your command and their response to your charm and energy. Whatever you do, keep your ego in check on the date and it will work out.
Libra: Though you may not realize it, you are in harmony with those in your immediate environment. You are actually flowing with, not fighting or resisting, what is going on around you. Which is why you shouldn’t worry about the date you have coming up this evening. You are nervous and may be having second thoughts about actually going. Yes you have some fears about having nothing interesting to say, which is understandable. But this person is quite special and deserves a chance. Just focus on what your date has to say and be natural. You are intelligence and charming, all will be well. Enjoy their company and do something fun and interactive together. Focus on the moment, do not think ahead. Just take each minute as it comes.
Scorpio: Flexibility and open mindedness in your relationships is called for now. Your friends or lover may behave in unexpected ways and it is throwing everything off. If you are in a relationship, focus on being impulsively affectionate and flirtatious at this time. You have been feeling quite restless lately and for many of you, your relationship has grown predictable and offers little excitement. If you going out on an important date, you might be worried that you are going to say the wrong thing and upset what seems unbalanced. This is probably due to nervous excitement but you need to focus when you go on your date and talk from your heart. Forget any mindless chatter; go for depth rather than meaningless gossip.
Sagittarius: Moods will swing erratically today and otherwise stable situations may suddenly fall apart when you least expect it. One of those things may be you finally taking up the task of discussing a difficult issue that you know needed to be dealt with but just had no clue how to broach. Instead of continuing to run away from your fears, look into them, find the courage to start this conversation. Once you begin, just let it all flow honestly from your heart; don’t try and manipulate your words. Whatever you do make sure you have a backup plans in case the conversation gets out of hand and turn tense. Don’t return harshness with the same, remember this is just as difficult for you as it is for them and now is not the time to make or take offense.
Capricorn: Lighthearted fun is the order of the day at the moment. Spend some extra time in the company of your friends and family. A family gathering, or possibly a fun filled night with your friends or mate will elevate your spirits tremendously, you need it. If you are attached, this energy would work more in your favor if you can overcome being “tongue-tied”. You want to express how deeply you feel to someone special, but just can’t get those words out. There are a thousand ways to say, “I love you.” Use your imagination. You may want to write them down in a letter or a poem, or even create a picture to get your message across. Find a way to communicate it and still be comfortable in your vulnerability. They deserve to know how you feel.
Aquarius: This energy isn’t about you right now, at least not directly. The energy surrounding you is more focused on how your actions affect others and theirs towards you. If you are attached, you are feeling ruthless today. You are very tempted to stay quiet and watch your loved one freeze in the cold of your icy silence. They probably do deserve to be treated this way and possibly worse after their recent behavior, but do you have the whole story? Rather than giving them the cold shoulder, give them the chance to explain what happened. Then feel free to take whatever direction you want afterward. If you are unattached, put out what you would like to see in a partner and in return you’ll find a partner that can provide it for you.
Pisces: You may feel frustrated as to where you are headed in life and in your intimate affairs right now. Any plans or decisions you want to make should wait until tomorrow. Right now it is too hard to figure out the right move, especially if it involves the person who has your heart. One benefit of the day’s energy is that you can finally set some sort of precedent in said relationship as you begin to talk about certain boundaries that you have wanted to take shape. You haven’t done so thus far because you fear the possible consequences of your actions. If you can be honest, you will be pleasantly surprised. Have some self control and remember tomorrows another day and a new perspective. Life doesn’t come with a manual; you have to take it as it comes.