Love Horoscopes – May 22, 2013
Aries: If you are going out on a first date tonight, you will have to do a little work. You have this internal war where your confidence is fighting your intelligence and you are even worried about what you are going to eat. If you want that second date you need to relax and be yourself, your best feature. If you are attached, you feel that it’s time for change in your intimate affairs. Right now you have a sense of emotional detachment at the personal level all combined with an emphasis on idealism. This of course affects your tolerance level as you treat those whose energies aren’t in tune with yours with cold shoulder and icy demeanor. It is definitely a time to consider making some changes or even talking about the issues at hand.
Taurus: Pride is something you sometimes struggle with and it seems to be a major issue in a close personal relationship right now. One of your problems is that you are stubbornly sticking very rigidly to a choice that may no longer be applicable to your present situation. This is creating a feeling of being trapped between you and your partner, which is not helping matters at all. Take caution and listen to your heart and intuition. If one of you is prepared to let go or even compromise – this could begin to heal the rift. Regardless of what is going on in your love life, it will have a big impact on you at this time. Old love may be transformed or possibly end and new ones may show up when least expected. If a new one presents itself, welcome it.
Gemini: Your desires to enjoy yourself at this time are strong, they may make you selfish. This could contribute to any current problems you may have in your intimate affairs. If by chance you are dating someone much older than yourself, this stubborn energy could make your problems impossible to resolve. You are both sticking to your own particular ways of looking at your relationship. The contrast in views makes it difficult for harmony and love to flow between you two. You must find a compromise or to be prepared to eventually part. For those of you unattached and looking, romance is very possible if you make just a little effort to take a risk. You need to put yourself out there so you can appreciate and taste life!
Cancer: Thanks to the energy today, your intuition is on the mark. Use this time to build some trust in yourself. If you want to make progress with someone you absolutely desire, you first need to address whatever the obstacle that is keeping you apart. Once you figure out what the barrier is and how to bring it down, start chipping away at it immediately. Just keep your cool and work through it. The efforts you make will be well worth it in the long run. In general, any agreements made now will be a benchmark for cooperation in the future. If you are attached it will be easier to agree with any plans or set mutual goals. Now would be the time to start planning that wedding or figuring a budget to buy that first house.
Leo: You may begin to think twice about a certain relationship you have recently become involved in. Whatever incident sparked this, you feel caged and restricted. You are a little disheartened because you didn’t see this coming. Before you take any drastic action, talk to your sweetheart first. The outcome of the conversation could be much more positive than you imagined. For many of you, there may be some moments of inspiration in your love life that you simply cannot explain. Stop trying to pin them down or you could lose them altogether. Just enjoy and savor the feelings brought out in the process. It has been a while since things have felt this good. Make a long lasting memory by writing down your day or even taking a few pictures.
Virgo: Let’s be honest, you have problem with pride. One that creeps up on you from time to time and today will be no exception. If you are going out on a first date with someone tonight, then you better be prepared to swallow it. He or she is not like you in that way and will not understand your quirks just yet so you will need to be a little more flexible and adaptable. There is the potential for a strong and positive relationship if you can both be more fluid and spontaneous. Do not let this opportunity pass you by because your arrogance got the best if you. Now if you can get yourself under control then feel free to say what you feel. It will be easier and you can do so with little fear of getting into trouble.
Libra: Some of you may have an interesting encounter with someone in authority that also happens to have romantic desires for you. If you do return the sentiment it will be bittersweet. You are happy with this new knowledge but you find yourself in state of conflict. You should reflect deeply before making any hasty decisions and potentially missing out on love. Just remember that being who you are doesn’t mean you can’t be sensitive too. It can at times be difficult because of your sense of responsibility and sheer determination. You have a hard time separating your feelings of vulnerability and sensitivity because you don’t know where to draw the line. This is why power struggles are constant in your relationships. This will work out with time and effort.
Scorpio: Many of you may be worried about how you are being perceived today. If you have an important date, do your best to relax yourself and think positive, things will turn out badly if you cannot let go of your anxiety. It is understandable that you are worried about everything from your appearance to your conversational style, nothing wrong with that. Now if you could focus on making your partner feel good, you would have more success. This is a really good time of the month to start working on getting noticed if you are unattached. Someone will be paying attention that you haven’t realized is watching. Right about now there is some good energy getting around that will work its way directly into your life next week. Help it out where you can.
Sagittarius: Your passions are strong and compelling at this time, making you very demanding of a lover’s energy and affection. Things may get a little serious between you and your partner. You may have seen this coming as you have felt the temperature change from hot to warm and now you feel cold. Tensions will probably erupt because one of you feels like you have been giving more but not receiving enough in return. You could both decide to be difficult, and stick rigidly to your own views and beliefs about what should happen next. But thankfully, it doesn’t have to be like this. Make the choice to open your heart and discuss your feelings. If you make the first move you may just succeed in bridging the gap.
Capricorn: Your desire for love and affection, as well as beauty and pleasure, is strong now. This opens the door to act on your feelings and creative impulses. But for those of you with romantic plans today, they may be put to the test. If you are not happy with some aspect of your personal life, a few issues will cause you tension in a close relationship. Part of your problems could stem from you thinking that you will be riding off happily into the sunset with that special person by your side. Come to find out, that things have changed and now you can’t. It’s possible that there is another person who is manipulating the situation and out to cause trouble. Be patient and you will come out the victor.
Aquarius: You might want to think more seriously about the future of your intimate affairs. Those of you with someone special may not be sure whether to take it further or merely bide your time and see how things go. After all that has happened the last few days, it is understandable. Just don’t let the annoying disagreements get you worked up as it is still very easy to get into pointless arguments. Fired up emotions can let fly harsh words, so be careful what you say and think before you speak. And when in doubt, agree to disagree if at all possible. Because of the energy surrounding you, you are prone to a pessimistic view of the future. Do not come to any decisions today. In a few days you will see things differently.
Pisces: Things may take an unexpected downward turn in your love life today; try to resist the temptation to fly off the handle. It is likely that your current effort will be suddenly derailed. Keep calm because the only way to get things back on track will be through some sort of negotiation and compromise. Just keep in the back of your mind that things said in the heat of the moment should be about passion not anger. If you are attending a social gathering this evening, it may be a far more formal and stifling than you had anticipated. To make matters worse, that person you were looking forward to meeting could turn out to be boring to the point that it becomes disappointing. You may have to turn to someone else for some stimulating amusement.