Love Horoscopes – July 8, 2013
Aries: You have been contemplating how to best discuss something that your sweetheart knows is an issue between you. And although you need to talk to your loved one, you are not quite sure how to go about saying what you need to say. The thought has even crossed your mind to just gloss over the truth to make the whole subject that much easier to deal with. However, confusion only breeds more confusion, so it is probably best to be completely honest despite the weight of the matter. If you are unattached, it is possible that you will bump into someone unexpected today. Whoever this person is, don’t blow them off just yet. For whatever reason, they have crossed your path today. Don’t assume it’s a chance meeting; there is a reason for this.
Taurus: You may find yourself tongue-tied today, especially with the current interplay of astral energies, but if you have something important to say to your loved one, then the best thing is to make sure you really do know what you are talking about. If you have a practical project that needs some discussion, then half the battle will be getting your facts right. Then progress can be made. A day of nostalgia and domesticity emphasizing a need for security and a sense of roots. Family, home, relatives, and romance play a bigger part in your life. You want to belong with someone on a private, intimate and very personal level. You need to be needed and to feel it’s okay to have needs.
Gemini: Romance blooms in many ways, and for you today it is likely to blossom in a very primal, lusty manner. Physical needs should be allowed to take the forefront. Although you would like to tell this someone special how you feel about them, you may decide that, at least for the moment, it is better to play it safe and not give it away just yet. Whatever your motives for wanting to keep your deeper emotions hidden, you may find that you actually feel better acknowledging the truth. You will want to do so and you should do so but first thing is first – a wild, uninhibited romp between the sheets is in order. The more spiritual aspects of love will have their moments, afterward. So focus on have fun first then have that conversation when you recover!
Cancer: Hidden passions, fears, jealousies, longings, desire, or needs surface in you now and can stir up trouble in your love life. Don’t let any this put you off from getting that date with a special person if you are unattached. You could have a wonderful evening out with him or her but if you can’t get over these insecurities, you might give the wrong impression. If you are attached, these hidden troubles are likely to make you feel compulsive or demanding in a close relationship. If you can overcome this, you relationship can be deepened and reborn during this time and be given new life by your willingness to reveal yourself completely to your loved one. It is all about give and take today.
Leo: You have been carrying a secret in your heart for a while and now you think it is the time to share it with the person it pertains to. Whether you have been with your latest lover for weeks or months, you feel that you would like to access a deeper level of intimacy, but are worried about their response. Don’t be worried about it! You’ve wanted to be desired more than needed by someone you can have a long term relationship with and this person is it. Once you can muster the words, you will have a feeling of being at peace and stable on the emotional level. This stability and permanence satisfy a deep emotional need for you. You will look back on this time in a few months and laugh at your reservations.
Virgo: This is a period of critical decisions and transition. And though you may not want to hear it, major changes in your life can occur now (ending a long-term relationship or beginning a new one, etc.). In fact, it is not unusual for several important changes of this nature to be occurring so do not focus on one particular thing right now. But if there have been some heated or uncomfortable discussions then you may have reason for concern. If you fear this, then it means that you should, practically have to, talk some more and uncover a few more areas of insecurity so that you both can move past it. It can take a long time to nurture a relationship so that it truly begins to blossom and flourish. This is just one step on that road if the talk is successful.
Libra: You will pull emotional sustenance and feed your desires for security from ideals, friends or social involvement during time. There will bring about a need for change or a desire to break with old patterns from the past. Your longing for the new, the different and even the eclectic will draw to your interest towards someone you wouldn’t normally be attracted to. This longing could open the door to getting to know someone who has always seemed something of a loner. It is that aspect of their character that you are particularly drawn to, as you sense a slightly tormented soul within whom you feel sure you can help and nurture. You just need to tread carefully – so you don’t frighten them off. Little by little.
Scorpio: Your desire for love, companionship, and affection predominates at this time. A new friendship or romance could begin, or an established relationship can be revitalized and enhanced during this time. If there is someone you have wanted to reach out to, doing so now is likely to create become the start of something meaningful. But do not let a small difference of opinion ruin your night together or if you are unattached, stop you from accepting that new date this evening. You are truly making a mountain out of a molehill, and in the grand scheme of things this is really a small issue. Why not cast it aside and enjoy each other’s company as if nothing had happened. You will find this approach more successful.
Sagittarius: You are hot-blooded today. This is making competitive and impatient, which will cause friction or furiously emotional confrontations. Those closest to you will seem to have this uncanny ability to raise your temper at this time. So anything unresolved feelings or issues from the past are likely to trigger emotional outbursts now. You may have been sensing that your loved one has been keeping something back and have wondered exactly what this is. Given your current energy level you will probably demand them to be more honest about their feelings once they have pissed you off. Now there is no need to make a big issue about this; just ask them as calmly as you can. Despite the approach, this may deepen your bond.
Capricorn: Emotional well being and contentment are important to you at the moment. You will be able to achieve that relaxed and carefree feeling you desire. If you are attached you can do so by using all of your charm to make progress in your relationship. It has been difficult to get a straight answer out of your loved one; they just don’t want to talk about it. It may not be that they are being dishonest about this particular aspect of your relationship but you know that something about it is causing a problem. You will need to be very gentle to get them to admit what it is. You are likely to be extravagant with your money during this time as well. Beware of being overly generous; make very sure this person isn’t with you for what you can give them.
Aquarius: At this time you want to relax and indulge in what brings you pleasures. You’re likely feeling gluttonous or even hedonist. This contentment, emotional well being and harmony will prevail in your personal relationships right now. This looks like it will be a day where you get along well with people and situations allowing you to simply manifest what you need, letting it all come to you. But you may run across an obstacle in the way of getting to know someone rather special a whole lot better. It really is a question of communication and of knowing just how best to approach them. Not everyone is the same, or sees or understands things in the same way. Once you understand this, you will find it much easier to talk to them.
Pisces: Sometimes you do very well with hiding the madness in your mind. But don’t think that because you haven’t spoken about what is currently worrying you, no one has noticed there is something going on. If you’re attached, your lover may be more psychically tuned in to you than usual, and is picking up on your distress without you realizing it. When they finally confront you, you may as well be honest and start talking. You will feel better – really! Remember that as much as someone loves us, they may not know when we need to feel appreciated and needed. It is easy to forget that actions can speak so much louder than words. So go ahead, share your feelings honestly and watch your loved one respond positively.