Love Horoscopes – January 4, 2014
Aries: You are a goal orientated person and often surprised at what’s at your command and how others respond to your charm and energy. Your energy, and the one radiating from the planetary alignment today, is bringing you close to reaching certain goals you have in your personal life. There is someone special that you are either hoping to connect with or get closer too and now is the time that it will happen. But, in order for things to continue on the path set, you must let it happen on its own and not force the issue. Because you are impatient by nature, this will be very hard for you to do but it is very important to be patient and step back. You are so very close; don’t lose out on all you want because you can’t wait a little while longer.
Taurus: Sometimes you talk and can’t stop talking. Most of the time, those close to you enjoy listening… until you say things that are not as innocent or harmless as you think they are. Usually this happens when you feel the instinctive need to be powerful and in control. When the need to be pulling the strings and calling the shots creeps up on you, you become overly critical and authoritative. If it hasn’t happened already, be mindful of what you say in order to what could potentially be an explosive situation. There is nothing wrong with wanting to take control of the issues going on around you, but do so in a manner that your significant other doesn’t feels smothered or excluded.
Gemini: The energy radiating from the planets may encourage some very deep feelings to surface and bring you the realization that you need to take action concerning an important matter. If you have been half-wondering what is going on within your relationship, then it is time to get out of this fog of confusion and do something about it. You need to address the problem directly without beating around the bush. If you’re single an opportunity for a romance may arise which is likely to be exciting. This is a time for getting a little loose and wild with friends, going dancing, or doing something out of the ordinary that is stimulating and fun. You could meet interesting new people and are more open to people who are quite different from yourself.
Cancer: You may be trying to get something out of your love life that has either long been dealt with or never resolved. The last time this topic was visited, you tried to bulldoze your way through in order to reach the desired outcome. If you recall – that didn’t work so well now did it? This time around, you need to genuinely listen to what is being said without becoming rude and arrogant. While doing so, speak honestly from the heart and express a greater level of sensitivity and empathy than you did before. You may be surprised at the future outcome. Those of you unattached may be meeting new people today. They will be rather considerate, understanding and nonjudgmental. You will connect with one of them on a deep and spiritual level.
Leo: There may be someone close to you that you having problems with. Your relationship with him or her has become difficult lately. You know that something should be done but you have been scared. You are not sure if you should make a move or wait to react to theirs before you let out your feelings today. The thing is, something needs to give and you have been burying your head in the sand long enough. It would be much better to confront the problem head-on and really deal with it. Just take the first step and say something! If you need to apologize, acknowledge their pain or even just acknowledge their existence, make the first move. The faster you put this behind you the easier rebuilding this relationship will be.
Virgo: Once you get something in your mind, there is usually no turning back from it. Many of you started this week rather flexible and adaptable in your relationships but somehow you have progressed into this obsessive creature. Many of your negative traits are floating to the surface and those closest to you are beginning to notice. There is now a fine line between your stressed out self and aggression/intimidation… you are dangerously close to frightening your romantic interest off altogether. Whatever it is that has you so up in arms, let it go. Cast it aside, deal with it later… whatever it takes to reign back your fury. Shake it off and get back to your loveable self. We can revisit this another time.
Libra: There are times where you can get ahead of yourself and become a little more aggressive than you normally are. Today that energy is affecting those unattached and those who have recently begun new relationships. You are even more intense than usual; making your emotions stronger than they need to be. If you are pushing for some sort of response or attention, let it go now because you won’t get it in your current condition. Whomever you are trying to interact with is either overwhelmed by your aggression or really has no answers to give. Ease off, if you can! What you are looking for will work itself out in its own time, just hang in there. Take things slow and easy, right now this is the best way to handle things.
Scorpio: Things have been going well for you lately. You are optimistic, hopeful, and forward looking at this time. But in the back of your mind you may be waiting for the other shoe to drop. What isn’t helping is that the energy surrounding you is bringing about the rather negative sides of your personality. If you can stop worrying, you can combat this energy and overcome its effect. If you cannot let all of this worrying go, you may miss out on a potential date or improvement in your love life. By leaving it behind, you will be able to see connections and possibilities you may have overlooked before. Besides, you will have a better chance being asked out or invited somewhere if you look as positive on the outside as you feel on the inside.
Sagittarius: Some of you may feel you have something to prove today, someone to convince or the need for validation. You may be so wrapped up in achieving this that you have lost sight of love and relationships as a whole. This is understandable, refinement and relationships are the building blocks to emotional satisfaction for you right now, but you may be going too far. If you want to keep on fairly good terms with the person in question, it may help if you could cool down and try not to force the issue for a while. In order to achieve the emotional satisfaction you are looking, maintaining harmony is essential. This doesn’t mean that you cannot have that heart-to-heart talk you know is coming, just remember there is no right or wrong with feelings.
Capricorn: You are forever moving forward and take great strides to keep it that way. It isn’t surprising that you will go as far as to lie to yourself and hide emotions you feel deep down inside. Today, you may just have to access that place in your heart where some of your most delicate emotions exist. Over the next few days you will find that many of the conversations you will have will have a particularly emotional, intimate, or nostalgic tone. There may be memories you begin to share that stir up emotions you have tried hard to bury. Do not be surprised if the person who is involved in those memories happens to reach out to you, just to catch up. This may be the opportunity for you to reflect and gain closure… maybe even heal.
Aquarius: Many of you have grown hard these last few weeks and have made strides to sequester any of your natural sensitivity and compassion. What you have lost sight of is that being strong doesn’t mean you can’t be sensitive too. Stop ignoring the obvious signs from the one who has your heart, have the courage to approach them and listen to what they have to say. You will have help softening your heart thanks to the energy surrounding you. It will make it much easier for you to address the status of the relationship between you and your love interest. Ignore this and it is highly likely some sort of power struggle could result. Be an attentive listener, and a mutually beneficial compromise will be found.
Pisces: Your eyes will be wide open today as your love life goes through some sort of transformation. Now this can change you or it may change the situation but either way, certain aspects will no longer have a negative impact on things. Because of this energy surrounding you, you will begin to appreciate your better qualities and this new perspective. This is a good time to mend fences and smooth over any problems in your personal life. By working on these issues, most likely by talking them through, some amazing changes could take place. As you go through this remember to always try and find the positive aspects of situations before looking for the negative. You will far more successful when you.