Love Horoscopes – January 5, 2014
Aries: You have known for some time that you need to change if you are ever going to find real happiness within your close personal relationships. The celestial configuration offers just such an opportunity. Although this will inevitably be a gradual process, you can begin by making a positive commitment to be honest with yourself about your behavior, and also honest with your partner. Ease into any changes gently. Personal acceptance is sometimes a step beyond the norm for you, but at this time it can really gives you a boost of self confidence to go after someone you really want in your life. If a commitment backs off, let them go as it’s not someone you can keep tied down if they choose to flee. Better luck next time.
Taurus: As an Earth sign you feel grounded and naturally attuned to life. You make your assessments and with those come decisions you are reluctant to ever change. Your practicality leaves you little to no room for flexibility or mistakes. Today comes a day where a series of events or a something you have seen or heard, compels you to take a hard look at your love life, if not life in general. For once you will be forced to look into mind and connect with your intuition. You didn’t deduce the events that have unfolded, you felt as if what happened was possible and likely. It is time to look more closely at what your dreams mean or that taking heed to your intuition or gut reactions isn’t just wishful thinking. It will help your love life once you do.
Gemini: Because you are of two minds, the effort to change is lost on you because you are always changing inside. It is often an uncomfortable process because you can always see different layers to every problem its many solutions. Nothing is ever black and white and when it is, you see a bit of grey peeking around the corner. Today you will have to take a good look at your love life and keep you and your feelings in the forefront. This isn’t just about what is happening on the surface of your personal relationships but why you are willing to accept or settle on certain things about your lover, but not others. Look at the real reasons why you two became involved in the first place, and where it seems to be heading. You have to make a choice.
Cancer: Personal subjects the focus of the day so you now would be the time to let go of the issues that you have been holding on to. Feel free to speak up and clear the air of any grievances but don’t be surprised if your sweetheart has some harsh ones of their own. Their complaints are nothing that most cancers haven’t heard before; you will be reminded of your natural assumption that you are right and should be listened to and obeyed. What you really need to remember is that relationships are a matter of give and take, live and learn. By not holding on to that nugget of wisdom, you hold yourself back from really achieving the peace and harmony you know you deserve and desire in your love lives. Write it down.
Leo: Some of you that are attached may be having a problem where you feel you must shove or push your agenda through. By now you have to see that this is a losing strategy in your relationship; the more you shove the more resistance you’ll get. Back off for now because you have lost this battle; some of you have now actually lost the war and should walk away. What is going on is a classic Leo problem. Your ego and defense mechanisms are holding you back from real love because of your insistence to display and demand dominance. Surely your need to control and obtain will limit your own personal growth as well as the growth of your intimate relationships. Now is the time to begin removing them. You will find yourself happier once you have.
Virgo: For many of you, your relationships have a very competitive and rather aggressive at this time. Of course conflicts over power and dominance are to be expected but you are in no mood to compromise yourself in order to please anyone. Nothing wrong with that except this time you may lose. Even if you are not in this exact situation, you need to take a long hard look at how you relate or interact with others. The energy surrounding you is poised to make some powerful changes in your life but they will be subtle yet significant. You will find where it is you are limiting yourself unnecessarily and maybe some other mistakes you are making. Not a moment too soon as some of you have a new love coming towards you, just over the horizon.
Libra: You are looking to rest and relax today and you will, after you do a bit of soul searching. There may have been recent events in your love life that have prompted this but you really should take care of your need to always find balance in the grey area, the one where you put others before you. You have done that for so long and it has gotten you nowhere. It is time to make your choice and do so with absolute certainty. Make this decision for yourself. Understand that sometimes, balance can only be achieved by dealing with absolutes and not just the grey area of life. You cannot please everyone if you are not happy yourself. If you can learn to recognize the difference, you can salvage your latest heart ache and pave the way for a better future.
Scorpio: Your view of how you would like things to be often clouds your judgment when it comes to the reality of the matter. Thanks to the energy of the day, you are gradually beginning to see the futility of your ways and can now start to behave accordingly. Your first task is to accept love at a more realistic level. The real breakthroughs you make in your love life will happen if you are willing to try some new or different approaches. You are attracted to the adventure and excitement of new love but once things settle down, you feel it has becomes boring or mundane and you need to urgently escape. Think of the broken hearts you have left in your wake or the love you missed out on. You need to be a bit more substantial in the future.
Sagittarius: There are some things that need to change and while it is within yourself, you are the one who will benefit from it. You have certain level of compassion as but not enough of it is directed back at you. You tend to stick it out when difficulties arise, sometimes long after is actually feasible or necessary. It is time to focus more on listening to your intuition and giving yourself a chance. That means allowing yourself to change when you know you really need to and listening to your soul when you are being urged to move on and get out. Not only will you save your heart but you will also your mind. When you hurt, it cuts you rather deep but if you can make this change now, it will help you later.
Capricorn: A new era is dawning for you personally and romantically. Many of you will be encouraged to take a look at certain patterns of your behavior in order to understand how these attitudes affect your relationships. Do not be surprised to find yourself in the dark recesses of your mind. The energy of the day will help you see things from a new perspective and give you the opportunity to change what you know isn’t truly working. Going through this process will help you be more open and genuine with others. Also, many of you will have the urge to jump into something romantically without thinking and without hesitation. Sure it will seem unconventional when your mind kicks in but it will still feel so right, your best idea yet.
Aquarius: Many of you may find yourselves acting erratically with your intimate affairs today. A series of events cause you to take action and finally make something happen. Whether you’ve developed a sudden infatuation, or the revelation that you need to make some make radical changes in a current relationship, you are determined to get what you want. For those of you making changes, some may come to understand why certain problems seem to keep reoccurring. Taking responsibility for your part and doing what you can to correct it will not only make things better now, but give way to better relationships in the future. A few of you may also find that you enjoy certain unusual and unconventional things that you never thought you would.
Pisces: Being the oldest sign in the Zodiac, you have seen plenty and understand change. Though you may understand it, you usually do not care for it unless it happens to work in your favor. Because you feel flexible enough to flow along with people and situations, change will be working in your favor today. Take that flexibility and look at making some long-term changes in your approach to life and love. You will be inspired by the connections you see between love, life and you then make changes according to the patterns. Expect true contentment and a real improvement to your emotional well being once this falls into place. This will be the start to the significant improvements in your life and intimate affairs that are about to take place.