Love Horoscopes – January 6, 2014
Aries: Your love life has seemingly derailed and you are painfully reminded that everything in life has cycles of growth and change. Your biggest problem with this is that it is something you cannot fully control. What you need to do is allow the change to work through so that things will get back on track. For many of you, your first thought is to just get upset and start running down everything in sight. But when you blow up and hurt someone else, it is so much harder to heal that person and the rift in the relationship. Try to avoid letting your temper get the best of you. Just take a good look at what is going on. It may seem as if you two have completely different agendas but if you look closer, you’ll find that what you both really desire isn’t that different.
Taurus: Many of you have had or will soon have a random encounter that will lead to a damn near instant and intense emotional or sexual attraction. At that moment, you want this person badly but once you separate, you may get cold feet. Somewhere along the line in the next few days you will come to a greater understanding of why you frequently fall into this trap and how you really feel for this person. You know that you need to shake things up in your life, you know you should take a chance. These urges you have should not be ignored but should be pursued carefully. There is really no reason why you should not pursue a relationship of some sort with this person. Right now, don’t become entangled emotionally and do not let doubt seep in.
Gemini: Being of two minds also means a bigger heart and bigger emotions. I have said this time and time again but today, trying to keep your head and your heart together will be overwhelming. Many of you are having problems in your love life that you are unsure how to proceed. Either you do not know where you want things to go or that things have grown tired and dull. Take some time to understand just how you fit into your situation and what you need out of this. Whatever that answer is, make sure it is what you really want because once you get started, you probably won’t be able to take any of it back. It may feel as if your hands are tied at the moment but when the time is right, you will certainly know exactly what to do.
Cancer: Well look who rose from the bed this morning shining! The energy surrounding you has done wonders in enhancing your attractiveness by focusing on your style and charm. Because you feel a bit more refined than usual, you have this fantastic confidence about you that you could use right now to get yourself very far ahead in love and life. Now could be the time to make that date or just step into the front of the line and make yourself known. There may be some competition from others equally interested so be prepared to pull out all the stops. If you do not have a prospect, you may have the chance to get closer to someone rather fascinating. With the fantastic combination looks and brains, you are bound to win this persons heart above the rest.
Leo: You may find yourself uncharacteristically and powerfully drawn to someone whom you just can’t get out of your head. You are not to the point where you feel you would do anything to attract their attention or get them to ask you out on a date. But you would have a better chance if you could cool off a bit; otherwise you may frighten them off. This is a time for getting a little loose and wild with friends, going dancing, or doing something out of the ordinary that is stimulating and fun. You meet interesting new people and are more open to people who are quite different from yourself. Another opportunity for a romance may happen which will likely to be just as exciting as the one who you can’t stop thinking about.
Virgo: It may not be your day today, especially if you are making decisions about your love life. Whatever you do, don’t go looking to your friends for help, support or advice – they are just confusing matters even more. How did all of this get so complicated? Well for those of you attached, you may have fallen for someone else and your heart is torn. For those unattached maybe you started out with someone and if they became distant, you happened along someone else. Now they both want your attention and you heart is torn. Some of you can’t decide whom you like best, as you like both of them the same but others feel that you are ready to choose and move on. For those of you who cannot come to a final decision, you are running out of time.
Libra: Life moves quickly, you move quickly but today, you need to slow things down a little. Take a good look around you and see what you may have been missing. If you are attached, you may be missing out on the romantic clues your loved one has been trying to leave for you. He or she understands that you are a mover and a shaker but also wishes you would move and shake them from time to time. Make your plans to do just that, otherwise you will be doing it by yourself. If you are unattached, you may have someone you have been playing with. You know this person has feelings for you but you have just been playing this kinda cat and mouse game with him or her. It is possible that this person has begun to move on. Do you let this person go?
Scorpio: This is definitely the time to consider making some changes or even talking about the issues at hand. But while this is a time for change in your intimate and personal partnerships, there are some other problems internally, you need to address. Yes, some of the problems you are experiencing are causing you to react defensively, but this anger you have is partially misdirected. Before you make this problem that much more difficult, you need to let some of this go as it is affecting the emotional detachment you need to get through this. Whatever it is you may need to forgive or even forget you need to so BEFORE you confront the person who has your heart. Then you can deal with him or her accordingly and fairly.
Sagittarius: You will have reached some clarity today that will guide you over the next few days. Many of you may be unattached right now and for those that are, you will be acutely aware of what you are actually looking for in a partner. Certain things you were once so concerned about, you are no longer while other things do become more important. If you are attached, you will have a similar epiphany. You may have realized that you were forcing your lover or the relationship into a direction that you may not now want to go in. In either case the last thing you should do is move towards the clarity that you have found. Sometimes too much involvement actually complicates things unnecessarily. Step back and just allow it all to develop naturally.
Capricorn: Communication is rather important right now and could very well be productive to any of your personal relationships. If you are unattached, this is a great time to be out and about, either meeting new people or hanging out with friends. During this time you will have a chance encounter that is of benefit to you by giving you something you haven’t had before. If you are attached and things have become argumentative right now, you might want to spend some apart from your sweetie. You two can’t see eye to eye as details they think are relevant you find absolutely trivial. Rather than make matters worse, go spend some time with your friends and let this blow over. Things should be much better in a few days.
Aquarius: Because this is a period of critical decisions and transition, many of you may be second guessing every thought you have or feeling very insecure. Because a change is coming, you don’t know what or when to expect it so certain events or actions you may be viewing as fake or having nefarious intentions. Even though you cannot readily prove that this is the case, you are determined to find out the truth and to confront the one who has your heart. Since it is likely you are wrong, you might want to handle your investigation like a covert operation, delicately. Observe, do not assume and do not confront until you absolutely know, without a doubt that what you thought was going on, is. Otherwise, you would have a huge mess on your hands.
Pisces: This is a good time to do some healing. The opportunity you have been waiting for to confront something that has been hidden, forgotten, or ignored for so long is here. But these unresolved issues in your personal relationships are or can turn painful and may cause you to lose your temper. You are always uneasy during any period of tension and conflict but this is what you were made for. You will be able to address these issues, allow things to be brought to light naturally and confront it in a logical and calm manner. Once this is over, not only can you relax but the relationship between you and this special person will move forward with nothing at all holding it back. Nothing will be able to stop you two once this is all resolved!