Daily Love Horoscopes – September 22, 2014
Many of you are feeling a little more needy and possessive than usual. Normally you like to ignore these emotions but you if you try to tough it out, this time around you will end up making things worse. This doesn’t need to be a problem, just sit your sweetheart down and discuss the reasons why you may be feeling this way. Reflect on the lack of security and stability you feel from them and what that does to you emotionally. Suggest a few compromises that you may be willing to make to accomplish these objectives or what you think can be done, mutually, in order to restore balance. If you two can create a plan and find a way to realistically follow through together, then you may just get everything your little heart desires.
The energy of the day has lowered your emotional inhibitions. This will make it easier to talk freely about your feelings, needs or desires right now. Usually when tensions rise in your relationship, you are blaming your partner. This time around is no exception and worse yet, he or she may have no idea that there is even a problem, because you are not communicating. Granted, it is much easier to blame your sweetheart but it does take two to tango. Talk to each other about what appears to be wrong, then work together to solve it. If you don’t use this time to strengthen your personal relationships or settle any lingering grievances, you will miss out on an opportunity to create an environment that would promise a fantastic future.
Everyone may want to stay out of your way today. Actually, that is a great idea because you can use this time to take care of all the emotional issues you are having with your partner, maybe even a close friend. No one wants to see you pout or glare at them anymore. While you could keep that up forever, you are no longer twelve. Do you even know what is really bothering you anymore or has it gotten buried under other unresolved issues as well? Working through them now will help you get over the barriers you’ve built. Take some time to look ahead at the next few days to see how quickly you can follow through with any plans you are considering to get through this. Your partner will certainly appreciate it in the end.
You are feeling warm, expressive, and frisky right now. You might have been thinking about romantic gestures and playing flirtation but yet, some of you will spend most of the day making up for being a crappy partner. You may have accused your partner of not appreciating you or paying enough attention. It doesn’t matter the reason you scathingly lashed out at them, you should really give them a break. What you may conveniently over-looked is that you too have played a part in your dissatisfaction. You have A LOT of ass to kiss today! If you are unattached, the warmth of the day will flow easily between you and the people you meet, especially those with whom you may share sexual interest.
Regardless of your relationship status, this could potentially be a great day. You are feeling confident right now and faith that if you take a chance with your deepest emotions things will work out as they are meant to. This will lead many of you to explore your feelings and satisfy your restlessness for new emotional experiences. Though there are some of you who would have an even better day if you would stop criticizing your sweetheart. Both of you have feeling a little emotionally distant from each yet this standoff isn’t helping. You feel as if it their fault but what part have you played in all of this yourself? Go on – be nice and put your perfectionist tendencies aside! No one is infallible and that does include you.
Though you are feeling positively bold and adventurous right now, somewhere along the way you will become intolerable and resent any form of authority that prevents you from behaving exactly as you please. You are generally happy if everything seems to go your way but today you will be reminded that it isn’t always as such. It is likely you will end up taking it out on everyone who crosses your path including your loved one. Let’s be real a second, life is far too short to worry about what you can’t do especially when there is no one to honestly blame but chance. Focus on what you can do and bring your poor sweetheart along for the ride. Remind them what an awesome lover you really are instead of what they’ve been seeing.
You have been thinking a lot about the future of your relationship and have decided to talk to your sweetheart about it. You might not like what you hear in response. You want more, but they may have reservations that they would rather not share with you right now. Part of you will want to walk away and break things off while the other part wants to confront this head on and demand to know why. Sure you can confront them, which might win you the battle but you will ultimately lose the war. You should simply encourage them to talk to you and tell you why they are feeling the way they are. By showing patience and consideration, you may get them to open up. If you do this and things still end, at least you know you honestly tried.
It may be a long day for many of you today. Those of you dealing with a relationship where you think your significant other has either taken advantage of you or is completely thankless, you might want to take the day and consider that it might not be them but you. Are you feeling guilty about something that is causing you to look for anything and everything that gives you a reason to escape? Perhaps it’s time you two talked. Those of you dealing with a sexually frustrating relationship, it might be time to put your foot down and ask for what you want and how you want it. It is time you have your own needs met, and stop neglecting your desires to please someone else. Relationships are a give and take and its time you take some.
This is an excellent time for your personal relationships. Thanks to the energy of the day, you are better able to share what you are feeling and any concern you have, openly and honestly with others. For some of you, there is a concern that your new sweetheart doesn’t have the right connections or have experience with your quality of life. What do you propose to do about it, run? Because of today’s energy, you can see connections and possibilities that you have overlooked, like qualities you can’t find in your circle of friends. Give him or her a chance, it will be worth it. For those of you already involved, now is the time to share your plans and dreams for the future. You may find that your loved one has similar notions as well.
Many of you may feel claustrophobic today but this is good time to do some healing. Unresolved issues are stirred up and the underlying causes are making you could feel caged in and chained to a certain situation that has been hidden, forgotten, or ignored for a long time. Confronting it, especially if it pertains to your relationship, in a logical and calm manner will get you farther than losing your temper. You and your loved one should go out somewhere special and suitably romantic talk things through and enjoy the atmosphere. If you communicated well, expect the spark to reignite the flames and create something special you’ll enjoy later on. Hopefully things will be well on the way to being the loving and warm relationship you two shared.
If things have been a bit tense with your loved one this week, you have had some time to think up a plan to change it. Over the last few days you have become more clear and objective about your relationships and realize you need to communicate more openly with your sweetheart. Though you may have expected things to blow over some by now, you are still feeling emotionally estranged from him or her. This is a favorable time to work out differences so use this opportunity to resolve these problems and come closer together. You need to begin by doing some serious talking then just allowing each other the chance for it to work once again. By the end of the day things should be much better and you two will make up for lost time.
You are rather sensitive today which is causing you to feel more passionately and respond instinctively to whatever happens to you during this time. It is likely that these heightened emotions will cause a slight glitch today where love and romance are concerned. A difficult emotional situation may come up, likely to be about people with a strong attachment from your past. This needs to be healed and can be if you overcome any fears and work through the problem with your sweetheart. The soon the better but only if you feel that you can get past your reservations. Also, many of you will feel energized and invigorated when it comes to being involved with projects that benefit your family or home. It’s a welcomed distraction.