Love Horoscopes – November 16, 2014
Aries: Life thrives through change. Though it can be positive or negative, transformation is needed to keep everything fresh and alive. This is so very true with one’s intimate affairs. We continue to grow every day but if you and your love cannot grow together then you grow away and apart from each other. Many of you may not feel any growth in your relationship and that has caused you to look at it in a whole new light. Focus on your intuition and empathy as you wade through these waters. Before you commit to taking this relationship any further, you and sweetie need to have a heart-to-heart discussion. If you two cannot find common ground and level of trust and understanding, you may need to consider your options.
Taurus: Your relationships are likely to be going well as they are interactive right now but they are also a bit mellower than you would like. Not that you are looking for drama but you would love to have a little more positive excitement. Not only do feel this way but you would also like to show your sweetheart just how much affection and appreciation you have for him or her. Combining both these desires could transform your current relationship tremendously. Take your feelings of tenderness and love and use them to lay out a new path for love and pleasure for you and your sweetie. Once he or she catches on, you two will take the steps together and inject vitality into your lives. Make this happen!
Gemini: You might be nitpicking everything today. This is fine in your life and even in your professional life but has that ever gotten you anything but a broken heart in your intimate affairs? Exactly so rather than be fussy and rip apart every little thing in your relationship, take any grievances you may be holding on to from the past or present and discuss them with your loved one. The energy surrounding you is promoting change so why not begin with you. Change your attitude and talk about what you feel so you can clear the air and get things back on track with your sweetheart. But that also means you have to listen sensitively to what your lover is saying but also pay close attention to what they are feeling. Make the most of this opportunity.
Cancer: Change sometimes bothers you. It oftentimes translates into something slightly frightening and you feel it’s a sign of insecurity on various levels. Right now, you might want to reconsider this when it comes to your love life. Everyone has their good and bad points and for those of you attached, knowing this is your strength and can be used to improve what you and loved one have. Your desire for love and affection may not be satisfied in the way you hope without making these changes. If you are unattached, you may be feeling a bit impulsive and could care less about any consequences. This is fine in all other areas of your life but your intimate affairs. Go have your passions satisfied but do so with a little prudence and you avoid trouble later.
Leo: Not everything is as it seems or is as we choose to accept as true. Those beliefs you have about and intimate relationship will likely undergo some sort of revolution today. What you will come to find is that certain fantasies and ideas have no real truth to them and do not accurately represent the situation as it is. Yes this will be a rude awakening but it need not rattle you. If you can let things be as they are – you could be in for a pleasant surprise. Today, make room for and indulge in the spontaneity and flexibility trying to do better things in your life. Feel free to express your affections and be more open and honest than you usually are. This should allow you to give and receive pleasure, love, and happiness into your life more easily now.
Virgo: By the time this cycle is over, you will learn more about your own depth and that of your partner. You have been operating under the assumptions that your relationship is under control and all is good. Your loved one may be trying to operate under the weight of your expectations and no longer has the strength to carry such a load. Somewhere along the way today you will be thrusted into a situation where you will have no choice but to address this issue and change it. There will likely be a series of very personal conversations where you may find yourself revealing secrets and very private matters. You and sweetheart will bare your souls and find some level of common ground. You two will be better for this in the end.
Libra: Every now and then you do not mind shaking things up in your life and changing the game. Right now you need to do so and the first step is to bring your mental and emotional processes together. When you accomplish this then go head and begin to lower your inhibitions. Somewhere along the way you may have developed some sort of barrier that is keeping you away from having a really profound love life filled with undying passion and excitement. If you are attached, this change will really surprise and please your lover. If you are unattached you will definitely attract someone who is worthy of your devotion. Letting go of these blocks may not only signal a new phase in your love life but invigorate other areas of your life as well.
Scorpio: You’d like some semblance of order and coordination in your life and that extends to your intimate affairs. But as you are often reminded, matters of the heart and the feelings they affect are anything but orderly. Your attentions will likely be focused on emotional seriousness today as some unpleasant and unavoidable feelings start bubbling up to the surface. You have the tendency you be a little ridged when it comes to your love life and think that matters that do not contribute to the long term security of a relationship is insignificant at best and should be ignored. But to your sweetheart, it all flows together and builds towards the same security you both desire. Adopt some of your partner’s quality on the matter, live in the moment.
Sagittarius: This may be a difficult time for many of you attached. What you need is the courage to be honest, open, so you can allow yourself to vulnerable enough to make such a change possible. Think about it, you more than most, understand the power of love can overcome anything in difficult relationships. All you need to do is initiate a little heart-to-heart chat. Remember that home is where the heart is only when you make the effort. You will have the opportunity to transform your relationship and address the problems breaking you two apart. Brainstorm some new approaches together and lay down some rules that can make life more comfortable for all. These new ideas can save you the headache and heartache of repeating old problems.
Capricorn: The more you allow your instinct to drive you the more clarity you gain when it comes to a particular intimate relationship. You understand that now you need to rid yourself of any limitations and obstacles in this connection and allow these changes to bring out the potential you two have together. It is time to take action and make the fundamental changes in your lives so that you both can be better for each other. This may be a bumpy road but you two can get through this so long as you keep your eyes on the final goal. You both can do this together. Just be careful that the changes you think you need, don’t burn a relationship that you really want to hold on to.
Aquarius: For as much as you hate chaos and competition, it fuels the absolute core of your being. Right now the pressure around you is so intense that something has to and is indeed giving away. Your love life has become competitive for whatever reason and you both are trying to force dominance upon each other. Aggression is such a weak word compared to what is going on right now but it is the word we will use. At the moment there is nothing you can really do about it either because neither one of you is willing to compromise to please anyone, including each other. Sometimes though, competition is good for the soul and in this case, it should be good for your relationship. Unattached, use your aggressions to pursue the one you desire.
Pisces: For those of you unattached, the atmosphere around you has really changed. There is a quiet confidence and a clarity giving you a way to attract who you desire. You’ll have the courage to initiate a conversation with the one who holds your heart and so don’t wait any longer. Yes you will still feel a bit nervous but once you to get to talking, things will go smooth as silk. This couldn’t come at a better time as the energy flowing through the Zodiac makes relationships mutually beneficial and equally passionate. It’s likely that this person will have a profound effect on you and your life. If you’re unattached and do not have a love interest, you may meet someone who will have a creative or influential effect on your life. Don’t let them pass you by.